In loving memory
Amy Efland Wilson
1961–2026
About Amy
Amy filled every room she entered with kindness, quiet wit, and a gentle spirit that put others at ease. A devoted Christian, loving mother and wife, and cherished friend, she cared deeply for everyone around her and found joy in helping others feel seen, valued, and loved. Her warmth, faith, and happy heart touched countless lives, and those who knew her carry her example forward.
We gather to celebrate the beautiful gift of the time we shared with Amy—a life lived with grace, compassion, and love.
— Ben, Erin, Bailey, Haz and Gonza
Join us to celebrate Amy's life
Please join us for a celebration of her life, and afterward, we invite you to share a meal with family and friends as we honor the joy and love she brought into all our lives. Please let us know if you can attend so we can plan accordingly.
Friday, September 25 at 4:00 PM
Please respond by September 20
Share any of your memories
We're creating a space for friends and family to share their favourite memories and messages celebrating Amy. Your words mean so much to us.
“In Glendale”
Lynn Pierce · September 24
“In Palo Alto”
Lynn Pierce · September 24
“When we visited Oregon”
Lynn Pierce · September 24
“We are so sorry about the loss of Amy. She and I had discussed a cousin reunion. We will see you on Friday but thought I would share some photos.”
Lynn Pierce · September 24
“Dear Ben and family, I kept putting off adding a comment to this lovely tribute because I kept hoping to come up with the right things to say. I still don’t know what to say, but I do know that my dear friend Amy was one of a kind. Her smarts, humor, caring, quiet way was always with her and those she loved. Meeting in middle school and solidifying our friendship throughout high school brings so many memories that make me laugh out loud and smile. Even though we kept in touch infrequently, it was nice to know she was there and that we would always contact each other on our birthdays. I’m sorry that I didn’t know she was fighting such a battle and thank God that she had you and the girls. Although I will not be able to attend the memorial service, I will be there in spirit. Praying for you all and hoping the love of those who knew and loved Amy surrounds you all. Sending my condolences and love, Terry Foltiny”
Theresa Foltiny · September 22
“I’ll always remember Amy‘s fast sharp wit and smile.”
Leonard Wilson · September 18
“We are saddened to hear of Amy’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time.”
Steve and Lindy Reneker · September 17
“Amy and I took long walks around the grounds and neighborhoods of Silverado Country Club. We ccould walk and talk for hours. No matter how much time had passed between visits, we caught up quickly and shared how our lives were going. Amy always inspired me in the way she would say that God was leading her in a decision, or that she was praying about a situation...her faith was always evident. My husband, Neill, and I had the privilege of being in a Bible study group with Amy and Ben, and two other couples. That's how I got to know Amy better -- know her sense of humor, generosity, and insights about what we were studying. The couples group disbanded. Over the years, Amy invited me to.join her at Bible Study Fellowship (BSF) and also an online Bible study group. I treasure those memories of studying God's word with Amy. What a blessing to know that sweet Amy is with Jesus and that we will see her again.”
Pam Barker · September 11
“Attached photo: Great memories of wine tasting with Amy, Ben and family - October 2017 We all loved Amy’s peaceable gentle spirit; she did not seek the spotlight and loved warmly in her own steady way. Over the years, I admired how she drew closer and closer to the Lord Jesus through her devoted study of God’s Word. Ben, your marriage to Amy was a beautiful, faithful example to so many of us- a quiet testimony of what it looks like to love someone well for a lifetime. And now as 1 Corinthians 13:12 reminds us, she no longer sees “through a glass darkly” but now beholds her Savior face to face, and all she believed by faith she now knows fully.”
Carleen Grantham · September 5
“Dear Ben, There just isn’t words words to express my deepest heartfelt sympathies to you and your beautiful family. I know how much Amy loved and adored you all. I loved talking with her before and after class asking her for Bailey updates after Bailey graduated high school. She was always so proud of you all. I will cherish her kind spirit and infectious laugh and the many memories I have of her and also the two of you together taking my fitness classes over the many years. You all have been in my daily thoughts and prayers. I will be with you all in spirit at her celebration of life. Much love, Hollie”
Hollie Johnson · September 2
“Ben, you continue to be in my thoughts. I hope you are finding comfort with your daughters, family and dear friends. "What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us" from Helen Keller.”
Paula Fortner · September 1
“Dear Ben and family. We will be with you in spirit during the celebration of Amy’s life. A life taken too soon. We are so sorry for your loss.”
Steve and Carol Steinbrecher · September 1
“Omg Ben I had no idea she was sick! I’m so sad to hear this news…..I’ll always remember Amy’s sarcastic humor (just like mine) while we worked at Disney. She was the best! Her mild temperament was so comforting when the rest of us were frantic. She kept us grounded! I’m praying for you and the family during this time but knowing Amy is in Heaven is so very comforting….sending lots of hugs your way. 🙏😘”
Sharon Morey · September 1
“Always enjoyed celebrating the 21st amendment with Amy”
Ben Wilson · August 31